Beauty

Beauty is quite subjective. Have in your mind how you’d like something to be perceived by another and there are no guarantees. You can imagine how someone else will see it and most of the time you’re wrong. You can try to change yourself to be more appealing but you never know what someone finds striking. Getting someone to find you beautiful who does not think so on a regular basis is an impossible task. Usually the most honest sense of beauty is unique to each person and you can’t peg it that easily. You can usually capture it in a passing way by dressing nicer or doing your hair, putting on more makeup. But that isn’t significant. That lasting sense of beauty that strikes them in a way they can’t describe is much more elusive. It’s hard to describe and their friends probably make fun of them for it when they admit they like what they like. No one really enjoys calendar-waxy over-tanned beef jerky twisted rail thin red lipstick vapid expression faced people.
The most significant factors concerning beauty always involve health and honesty.
Be yourself, take care of yourself. Seems almost too simple. Whatever anyone ends up finding significantly beautiful about you is what you’re doing unintentionally, what you aren’t aware of, what you can’t call up and repeat as if it were a trick. You can’t control that sense of beauty from another, not the intense kind. Usually when you’re trying too hard you’re making yourself more unattractive actually. And if you notice a moment where they liked you most, you weren’t even thinking about how you looked.